Boundless

An article I read in Boundless had some points of note in it regarding characteristics for our future spouse.   It said that we should look for:

• Help Mate instead of Soul Mate - that there is only one soul mate for us is a myth
• Fruit of the Spirit instead of Fruit of Life - there are those that may enjoy the fruit of life due to looks, charisma, etc; but, evidence of the fruits of of the Spirit in their lives is more important and lasting
• Mr Righteous instead of Mr Right - it is important to find a person who seeks to be righteous
• Compatibility instead of Crush - crushes come and go; shared compatibility, especially spiritual is more important
• Faithful Ending instead of Fairy Tale - true happily ever after comes with someone who is faithful and will draw you closer to Christ