Order and Discipline

I've been negatively viewed as being too "rigid" and "strictly planned".  To someone who is unstructured, this may seem restricted and may cause stress.  But, for me, lack of structure and not being able to be on time is what would cause more stress.  

True, my nature likes order and discipline, and from Scripture, I would say that is not a bad thing.  1 Corinthians 14:33 says that "God is not a God of disorder" and there are verses that associate disorder with evil.  Titus 1:8 encourages the characteristics of self-control and discipline, and these characteristics have proven to be beneficial in my life.  An example of a great Planner in Scripture would be Nehemiah.  The Wall of Jerusalem may not have been able to be completed in such an effective and organized manner if it had not been for his planning.

As I consider those who have accused me of being to strict, I could see how they have actually benefited from my being so disciplined.   I have helped them out in areas where their lack of structure resulted in their need of assistance, whether it be financially, finishing something, in organizing,etc.

However, I do also value balance.   I do consider that I am able to adjust and be flexible when I need to.  There are so many areas and times in which I have been able to adapt to unexpected circumstances, and I have been able to do so effectively.  I do also try to be considerate of others who are not as orderly; but, for the times in which I've heard negative feedback, realistically, I was as flexible as I could be without it resulting in negative outcomes.

So, I stand by my actions, and will not compromise who I am, especially after taking into consideration what the wisdom in God's Word says.