Friendship

In the past couple of years, I have learned the hard lesson of what friendship is not. But, in contrast, I was just contemplating what friendship should be. Of my close friends, I have known some of them for a very long time - one for over 25 years, another for about 22, and two within the last 5-10 years. My closest friends share my love for the LORD, and are sincere and reliable. I enjoy spending time with them; and often gain encouragement from sharing with them and hearing about how God is working in our lives. I have learned that a true friendship works both ways - each should feel blessed by the other. In this fast-paced hectic world we live in, time, energy, and resources are often in short supply. So, it is important that friendships do not drain us. In fact, the best friendships are those that "fill our tanks". I do have other friends that I would spend time with and keep in touch with; but, the characteristics of our friendship differs from those of my closest friends. There are a few that I enjoy talking to or doing things with. There are some that I try to be a witness to. But, I think the main difference with my closest friendships is that these aren't tied by the special spiritual bond. However, these friendships are also important, especially if we can help point them to God. I also have a fairly large outer circle of friends. These are people that I've gotten to know beyond just an acquaintance or occasional interaction - people I went to school with, met at church, was in a small group with, worked with, etc. These are important for all those places and situations that we are in, to remind us that we are not alone. The interactions with others beyond "hello" help to make life more meaningful. Just last night, at Community Group, I was reminded of those who helped make me feel at home in my Church; and who supported me in getting started with teaching my class. I am grateful for the blessing of friendships! I thank God for bringing these people into my life.