Thursday, October 9, 2014

Remodel - Exterior Paint, Door, Gate, and Carpet

Now that the front hardscape is done, it does reveal that the house definitely needs painting.  So, that's my next project; but, in parallel, I'm also trying to install a new garage side door, gate, and carpet in the bedrooms.  I've talked to so many different contractors, and have had such varied responses.  I find that it is rare to encounter one who is friendly and really wants to do the work.

So far, the friendliest is this one company for vinyl gates, for which I have an estimate scheduled next week.  For the carpet, I went in person to their store, and they were pretty friendly.  Both painting contractors that I ended up getting estimates from were not bad either.

For the exterior house paint colors, I'm leaning towards Cocoa for the walls (which goes along with what I had intended for awhile), White for the trim and garage door, and Burnt Crimson for the accent (doors, shutters).  I hope it will look good and not be too dark.  It's really hard to tell from small swatches.   I decided not to go with the lighter browns, because they were too close to grey; and I needed a contrast against the pavers and concrete.  With the darker brown, I am able to contrast more with the trim; and I think the white is better than a cream.   The accent should provide the pop of color that I need.

12-Oct:  The estimates I received for the painting was definitely higher than the ones from a few years back; but, still close to what I had budgeted.  I will likely go with the lower priced one, though there is a longer delay to the start of the project.
The carpet estimates are higher than I had hoped for; but, the one I got was close to the one from Home Depot.  So, I will probably go with it, since the colors were closer to what I wanted.
I also paid for the door measure, which started the door installation process.
The second gate estimate is scheduled for this week.

14-Oct:  It's kind of disconcerting how decisions can change fairly radically within the course of one week:

  • For the painting, I ended up not going with the lower priced quote.  Even though it was about 10% less, I decided to go with the company that had more experience (30 yrs vs 8 yrs), and was more established (with employees as opposed to just the owner who didn't even have worker's comp).  They say they'll be able to start next week, and had even offered to start at the end of this week, which will be better than waiting until next month.  Overall, it'll end up being slightly higher than budgeted
  • For the carpet company, I found that their license has been suspended due to a worker's comp issue; so, I think it is best if I avoid that.  So, I am going to visit a couple of other companies
  • The door has been measured, and I should be able to order it this week, and hopefully be able to get the current 20% off promotion
18-Oct:  I visited another carpet company, this one more local.  The person in the store was very nice and walked me through the different types of carpets with really good explanations.   I have scheduled an estimate this week; and I hope they will be able to come within the price range I'm looking for.  I've picked out new samples:  Shaw Floors Shingle Creek 100% ANSO BCF Nylon in "Wooden Box" color (with 20 yr warranty) and Stainmaster Vernanburg (7 yr warranty) "Mellow Bean" color.

20-Oct:  Exterior painting started today.  On colors, I decided to drop the accent color since I didn't really like the Crimson when looking at the sample painted on the shutters.   I'll just use the white for all the trim and door and shutters.   As for the Cocoa brown, I will stay with it since I liked the darker color better than the one with white added.
As for the gate, the estimate was even higher than the last one; though this was likely closer to the actual.   While I thought the person who answered the phone was extremely friendly, I was not so impressed with the estimator who came out.   I'm considering getting an estimate through Lowe's for the gate.

22-Oct:  The first coat of the brown paint went on today, and my first impression is that it is dark.  And when it dries, it'll be even darker.   I just hope that when the white trim goes on, it will "lighten" it with the contrast.   Hopefully when all is done, it'll look nice.

24-Oct:  Now that the trim and garage door has been painted, I'm really liking how it has turned out.  The contrast between the whites and the dark brown is nice.  And comparing before and after pics, I would have to say that it is an improvement.   The paint is doing what I intended, drawing more attention to the architectural elements of the house (e.g. the nice wrought iron designs) and less on the hardscape.
I do think that the decisions we make during remodeling does reveal some of who we are, especially for exterior projects.   So, I think what the hardscape and painting show about me are that I don't just try to fit in and be like everyone else (e.g. I am the only one with full hardscape in the front yard, the only one with dark colors, etc), and that I try to be practical (i.e. no more watering and mowing the lawn or trimming trees needed).

25-Oct:  However, it still seems that the pictures look better than the actual.   With the actual, there is a really sharp contrast between the brown and the white; and in the areas where there is a lot of brown on the sides of the house, it really does look very dark and almost looming.    And, at night, it is even darker.   With the front entry iron gate, it is now painted white.   There are many pros and cons.  When it was brown, it was less noticeable; but, with the walls painted brown also, it was quite dark in the entry way.   With it white, it is quite prominent, but also highlights the other elements of white on the door and window trims.   Also, the white is consistent with the other wrought iron structures around the house.   I still think that I needed a bold strong color to contrast all the grey concrete and stone.  And, it is undeniable that the concrete and stone is now more in the background; and the colors draw one's eyes to the house itself.
Some of the comments I've gotten so far on the house colors:  the owner of the painting company said it was unique and made the house look very different; the lead painter said from the very beginning that he liked dark colors and that the house stands out; a lady walking by said that she thought it really looked nice; an older man walked by and really encouraged me by saying that he knew it was a risk going with darker colors but congratulated me on how well it turned out and even complimented me on being smart when it comes to water conservation.

27-Oct:  Now that I've been looking at the Before and After, I conclude that the deep-tone does provide the contrast I was looking for against the stone/pavers and white trims.   Also, I like the uncluttered clean lines; and am leaning toward not putting anything in the front to detract or clutter, not even pots, garden flags, and such.  I did buy some cedar bark to cover the dirt areas, though.   I chose cedar over the colored bark, hoping that these will less likely attract additional bugs.
For the carpet, I decided to go with this last company, and it's nice that they turned out to be the least expensive.  However, they informed me that the carpet likely will not arrive prior to mid-November.
I stopped by Lowe's to ask about Gate Installation Estimate - they put in a lead and I should be called about scheduling a consultation.
And, I'm still waiting for the Home Depot Door Installer to call me.

28-Oct:  One of my neighbors drove by and said that she loved what I did with the place.  That makes me happy that at least one of my neighbors like the changes.

13-Nov:  Well, I did order the Gate through Home Depot, and they were less expensive than the other estimate I had gotten, so I'm happy about that.  The subcontractor is Finyl Vinyl and they order the gate from Active Yards.   I decided to go with Juniper (semi-private with picket top), and ended up with the high-end Haven series, probably to meet the minimum cost the company is willing to do an installation for.  I chose white to match with my windows and trim.
I did get comments from two other neighbors who said they liked how the exterior now looks.  A friend of one neighbor even said that we should all do the same in light of the drought.

26-Nov:  Carpets in the bedrooms got installed today.  They look good and the colors go well.  I am pleased and glad.  The exercise room low pile carpet will definitely be better for the exercise machines; and with the padding, still feels better than the original carpet even.   And, the carpet in the other rooms really feel cushion-y and has that nice new smell.  I'm happy with the outcome and just hope that I can get things put back together before Thanksgiving tomorrow.  So, the only major let down were the delays in scheduling.  I also have to decide whether I will shave the doors, since two currently scrapes the carpet.

12-Dec:  It was nice that the Exterior Paint company called me yesterday to see whether all was well with the paint; so, I took the opportunity to ask once more for some touch-up paint, which they did not leave any previously.
Also, my side garage door was installed Wed.  It looks nice, and I even finish painting the trim and brick molding.
My gate install was scheduled for today; but, it's raining hard, so will likely be postponed.

19-Dec:  My white vinyl gate with picket top was installed today.  It looks nice; and the white vinyl fits in well with the rest of the white on the exterior of my house (trims, windows, doors, iron gates, etc).  I can now finally say that I'm done for this year (with only 11 days to spare).
It really has been a busy year of remodeling.   I'm pleased with all the interior transformations in the bedrooms.  The door and gate may be nicer than I really need; but, they look good.   I really like not having a lawn; but, it is definitely unusual for my area.   I like the exterior paint, though it is probably darker than I should've gone; though, I don't know whether I would've liked a lighter shade.  Well, it's done; and it all looks fine.

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Malachi 2 & 3

In chapter 2, God continues speaking to the priests with a Rebuke.  Their blessings will be cursed and they will be despised and humuliated.  God reminded them of the covenants made with the tribe of Levi, how priests should teach with truth, walk in peace and uprightness, and turn many away from sin.  The people of Judah and Israel have also broken their covenant by intermarrying and worshipping foreign gods; and through divorce.

They have also wearied God by doubting His Justice, saying that God appears to be pleased with those who do evil.   They did not have the right view of God; and were not listening to His message of Rebuke.

6-Oct:  In chapter 3, God responded to the people's questioning of His Justice by first telling them that the Messiah will come first to re-establish the covenant (vs 1 is quoted in Matthew and Mark referencing John the Baptist) and then will return in His Second Coming as a Judge, refining and purifying like Fire and Soap.  God reminds them that He was, is, and always will be Good and Just.  That's why He has not destroyed them despite their sins, and offers them blessings if they would Return to Him in obedience.  God also offers encouraging promises to the faithful Remnant - the He will listen, and that they will be in a scroll of remembrance, be His treasured posession, and will be spared Judgment.  Even though this chapter was a message of Judgment to the People, yet we see the heart of God in the chapter, desiring that they return to Him to re-establish their covenant relationship; and, if they return to Him, God promises to bless them abundantly.

Monday, September 22, 2014

Psalm 121

God has been pointing me to the Psalm 121 passage so often recently that I cannot help but notice, and thought it would be good to note it.  For the longest time, I've had the verse on my computer background wallpaper.  And then, it is also the verse for my calendar this month.  And then, it was brought up in class during one of the studies.  And then, I realized it was part of the lyrics in "Praise You in the Storm" by Casting Crowns.

I don't know what God is trying to tell me, but He certainly has my attention.   I do know that my help comes form the LORD.  At the moment, that's a truth that I've been able to joyfully recognize.   I just hope that this is not preparation for something coming that will require me to lift my eyes from the depths in order to cry for help....   But, no matter what, I know that He is with me.  Amen.

Thrive

I had a chance to go to the Casting Crowns Thrive concert over the weekend.  It was one of the best concerts I've been to recently.  I enjoyed the songs from all of the artists.

Sidewalk Prophets were nice to listen to.  They have a lot of songs that I often hear on the radio and like.

Mandisa was full of energy and seems like she must get a work-out during her concert performances.  Naturally, her most popular and well-known song was Overcomer.

And Casting Crowns is of course my favorite current Christian group; so, I enjoyed their music the most.  I think one of the things that make them so good is that their songs are Scriptually-based, written from their experiences serving with their church youth group(s).  Some things that stuck out from their sharing:

  • The picture of the tree for Thrive is one in which the roots go deep so that there is just as much going on below the surface as there is above.  In the same way, our internal depth should be as well established as anything externally
  • The reference to the fishing showed that Christ helped the disciples catch a miraculous amount of fish in the beginning of His ministry when He called them, and they chose to follow.  However, after they went back to fishing dejected by the events leading to and following the crucifixion, Christ again helped them catch a miraculous amount of fish to remind them of their calling.  Peter responded by jumping into the water to swim to Jesus
It really was an enjoyable evening of worship at the concert.  I was blessed.

Before the concert, we had dinner at Izakaya Wasa at the Spectrum.  It may have been a little pricier, but the decor was nice and the California Rolls were really good.  The sushi pieces were fine; and it was nice that the combo had green salad, potato salad, and miso soup.  Another nice thing was that because we ate so early, we were only charged the lunch price for the combo ($14.50).

Friday, September 19, 2014

More Life Principles

In April, my small group continued with a few more videos on the "Life Principles" from Charles Stanley:

3-Apr:  #3 "God’s Word is an immovable anchor in times of storm" - Isaiah 40:8 says that His Word stands forever.   The storms in our lives are originated from ourselves, others, Satan, or even ignited by God for a definite purpose.  We can remember that nothing can touch us except thru His permissive Will.   As for why God uses storms?  To get our attention or to get to the sin in our lives.  Storms can either destroy or strengthen us, depending upon how we respond determined by how we view God.  Because His Word is our anchor, when we stop being in His Word, we will DRIFT.  Storms are inevitable, our anchor is immovable.   The Bible is an anchor b/c it is the written record of the revelation of God to us.  God can quiet the storms in our lives like He calmed the storm in the Gospels.  Whatever storm we are going thru, God is at work and we just need to trust.  Without an anchor, the ship will one day shipwreck for one cannot just drift with the current.


8-May:  #25 "God blesses us so that we might bless others" - Eph 4:25-28 and 1 Tim 6:17 were used as reference.  Asking God to bless someone is for God to intervene in their lives for something on their behalf.  When you ask God to bless you, you're asking Him to intervene in a need in your life.  And, unbelief does not changd the eternal truths of God.

29-May:  #29 "We learn more in our valley experiences than on our mountaintops" - Adversity can either be a weighty Burden or a Bridge to a deeper relationship with God.  2 Corinth 12:7-10 (thorn), Psalm 103:19 (He is in control), and Rom 8:28 (all things work together for good) were used as references.  Through our trials we can learn:

  • Contentment in midst of adversity (Phil 4:10-11 and 2 Corinth 12:10)
  • To experience God's strength in our weakness during adversity (the Lord is my strength)
  • That He is the source for all our needs (sufficiency in Christ)
  • To trust in the Faithfulness of God  (God can't be anything other than Faithful b/c that is Who He is) 1 Corinth 10:13
  • That God values our service more than our desires.  So, rather than take away the adversity for Paul (e.g. shipwreck, beatings, stonings, etc), the Lord chose to equip Paul for service
NOTE:  Jesus knows how I feel as a single for He went thru it HimselfIf I choose the bridge route, I will come out better; but if I choose to soak in self pity, I will miss out.  God strengthens our message (Phil 1:13-15).  See everything as coming from God.  Learn the ways of God (when I think I can't, He gives me the strength and is at work).  He uses adversity to grow us; for you really learn how good God is when the bottom drops out and He shows up.  When others reject us, that's when intimacy w/God is strongest b/c He is always there for us.  Adversity makes us better comforters.  God has a specific purpose for our adversity, so when we go thru it, ask God to reveal His Purpose.  Remember that all God's purposes are good.  God seeks intimacy with use to get to our insides and to allow us to know Him.  For Paul, God had to crush IT (all that he was passionate about before) so the he would love GOD.  We can rejoice in adversity (Phil 4:4).  He created us for relationship mainly with HIM.

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Malachi 1

Starting a new Bible Study series in my class feels like embarking on a new journey and looking forward to what is going to be encountered.  We're starting the last book in the OT, both by order and chronologically.   I'm calling the series "Listening for God's Message", in line with strengthening our spiritual senses as we did with the last series, "Looking for God's Hand at Work".   It is important for us to listen for God's message, especially in light of what happens after Malachi... that when God's People refuse to listen, God may stop speaking until they are once again ready to hear, as evidenced by the 400 years of silence after Malachi and before the NT.

Malachi's name means "my messenger", and he was God's prophet about the time towards the end of Nehemiah.   The temple and the wall have been built, BUT the people have backslidden and fallen into disobedience a mere 15 years after the completion of the wall (~430 BC).  So, Malachi is given an "oracle" or heavy message which includes judgment.

However, Malachi 1 begins with God reminding His People that He LOVES them and chose them above Esau/Edom.  He reminds them of the covenant and how He has given them their land as their inheritance.   Yet, they do not give Him the honor and respect that He is due.  They offer defiled sacrifices with attitudes of contempt.   God said He would rather the doors of the temple be closed so that these vain sacrifices would no longer be offered, for they are unacceptable.

The People needed to listen to God's message of LOVE, for if they had recognized how much God loved them, they would in return love Him, obey Him, and want to offer Him their best.   They would honor His Name and worship Him.   In the same way, if we truly see how that God loved us so much that He sent His Son to die for our sins, we should love Him and seek to obey Him and give of our best to Him.

22-Sept:  There was a very important insight that came out of my class study.   The offering of the blemished (blind, lame, sick) sacrifice is no sacrifice at all; because the sacrifice is to symbolize the real sacrifice which is Christ Jesus who died on the cross for our sins.  He was sinless and perfect, so likewise the sacrifice offerings, as stated in the Law, also needed to be unblemished.  This helps show why God took such a strong stand against the defiled offerings.

Monday, September 15, 2014

Hallmark and Other Movies

I've always liked Hallmark movies and others like them, and recently I had a chance to watch quite a few:
  • Chance at Romance - This was a sweet romantic movie where the two main characters developed their relationship despite initially unknowingly being set up by the photographer's son.  I liked that the photographer was able to notice Samantha's good qualities.
  • Fixing Pete - It was nice to see Pete's transformation and the ensuing relationship that developed with Ashley who was also able to learn to "loosen up" and have fun.
  • Christmas Magic - Lindy Booth is a likeable actress, and it was a nice story of how she was able to help a single dad and his daughter.  It just seems like the casting of characters for the dad may have been more effective if they had found someone who would've been a better match for Lindy's character Carrie.
  • Lucky in Love - It was nice that the main character was able to find what truly brings happiness and to learn from her mistakes
  • June in January - The main character was not very likeable as she turned into bridezilla.  The groom-to-be was very supportive, understanding, and kind but he seemed a bit "stiff". Wes Brown seemed to fit better with Love's Everlasting Courage and Love Begins.
  • The Good Witch - I had a chance to watch three of the movies from the series (i.e. the first one, Family, and Destiny); and I really liked them.  I like the main characters; and Chris Potter really comes across as a loving caring person.  It's nice that the family sticks together, even through the challenges.
  • Shadow on the Mesa - This was a bit slow moving but Wes Brown is nice to watch in this one.  The Western genre seems to suit him.
3-Oct:
  •  Perfect on Paper was such a cute story, it got me wishing I could meet someone like the Coop character.  He had "made it" but gave it all up because he wanted more depth in his life.  He contributed to the life of a local young boy, helped out the community, etc.   And, it did not hurt that this movie had a pretty good looking cast also
  • Santa Suit - This was like a revised Christmas Carol where the main character changes his perspective and his company after his learning experience as "Santa".   It was a nice feel-good movie with a happy ending
12-Nov:
  • Recipe for Love was a sweetly romantic movie.  It held some extra interest for me, since it also involved some cooking.   I liked how the female lead was able to look beyond the "character" the male lead played and learned the real person underneath; and it was neat how they developed mutual interest for one another.   It was nice to see everything work out at the end for them both.
  • My Boyfriend's Dogs - The main character in this movie seemed to just be able to attract guys everywhere she went - work cafeteria, art show, pet store, yoga class....   That's not something I can relate to; but, what I found interesting was to see the interactions.   It was also the age-old tale of the right one just being right in front of her but she never noticed till the end.   It was an enjoyable movie.
12-Dec:  
  • A Royal Christmas had a very familiar and predictable plot; but, it was still a very romantic and feel-good movie.  Jane Seymour fits the role of the Queen well, since she does have a very regal air.  The Prince and his "Princess" were a cute couple - they convincingly played characters who truly loved it eachother
  • Christmas Under Wraps was also very sweetly romantic.  It made the small town friendly atmosphere very appealing.  Sometimes I do wonder if I would enjoy quaint and simple more than fast-paced and complex.
15-Dec:

  • The Christmas Shepherd was a cute story of two people who get together based on a turn of events related to their German Shepherd.  There were touching moments and it was nice how things worked out for them at the end
  • The Nine Lives of Christmas - The casting of the main character Zachary worked well, and was convincing.  He was good looking, likeable, and the transition from confirmed bachelor to his being in a relationship was believeable.   I liked how he transitioned from dating vapous model types to a more substantial kind unassuming person.
16-Dec:
  • The Best Christmas Party Ever - The casting was good and the main characters were likeable and attractive.  It highlighted caring about people over corporate pressures.
17-Dec:  
  • The Christmas Secret revealed itself so beautifully.  It was a great story tying together a really special group of people into a very happy outcome.  The characters were well cast, and I thought the little girl Haley was especially adorable.
23-Dec:

  • Northpole - I didn't know I would enjoy this movie so much.  It had all the normal elements of happy ending, growth, sweet romance; but, it also had some witty humor also.  A nice Christmas movie.
  • Christmas Comes Home to Canaan was another pleasant surprise.   It really was a feel-good movie; and was even really touching at the end when Bob was able to walk without his crutches.  I liked how the movie showed the benefits of helping others.  And there was even a bit of romance thrown in.  A nice family-oriented movie where they weren't even afraid to show a scene of saying grace before a meal.
30-Dec:
  • Angels and Ornaments - I really liked this movie.  It was neat that the "angel" turned out to be the main character's grandfather whose love story with her grandmother was woven throughout the movie.  I liked how the main character's best friend decided to step up and "fight for her"; and how well suited they were with one another.   It really was a nice story.
  • The Christmas Ornament - This was another surprise.  The cast of characters were likeable enough; but, what caught me are some really touching lines in the movie, like when Tim says to Cathy about the Christmas tree - to water it, because "even though it's cut down it's still alive" and she says "I can relate to that".   Or, when he says to her that love is not like a bus or a train that comes on a schedule; sometimes you wait all your life for it, and when it comes around, you grab hold of it.